Giving and meaning
Graduation leis
Garlands of flowers hung around a graduate's neck in Hawaii and across the Pacific, often stacked up to the chin.
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In Hawaii a graduate leaves the ceremony almost hidden under leis. Family and friends each bring a garland and place it over the graduate's head, one on top of another. The custom has travelled with Pacific Islander families to the mainland United States and New Zealand, and it has cousins in the garlands given at graduations in the Philippines and across Polynesia.

What it is
A lei is a garland worn around the neck or on the head, made of flowers, leaves, seeds, shells or feathers. For graduations the common ones are purple or white orchids, fragrant tuberose, plumeria, and small white jasmine known in Hawaii as pikake. An open-ended lei of twisted ti leaves or scented maile vine is often given to men. Away from the islands, families also make leis from sweets, ribbon and folded banknotes.
Where it comes from
Polynesian voyagers brought the garland tradition to Hawaii, where leis were worn by chiefs and offered to the gods and to one another as a sign of affection and respect. In the era of steamship travel the lei became the greeting given to arriving visitors. Its use at graduations grew during the twentieth century, as schools and universities became places where the whole extended family gathered to honour one young person.
How it works
Leis are ordered ahead from lei stands and florists, or made at home the night before by stringing flowers on a long needle and thread. After the ceremony the graduate stands in a field or car park while people line up to give a lei, with a hug or a kiss on the cheek. Kept in a refrigerator in a sealed bag, most flower leis last a few days. Orchid leis last longest.
How to take part
- Order a lei a week or more ahead in May and June, when demand is highest.
- Keep it cool and lightly misted until the ceremony.
- Place it over the graduate's shoulders so that it hangs evenly front and back.
- Give it after the ceremony, not before, unless the school says otherwise.
Good manners
- Accept a lei when it is offered, and do not take it off in front of the giver.
- A closed lei is traditionally not given to a pregnant woman. An open-ended one is used instead.
- When a lei has faded, return it to the earth: hang it on a tree, bury it or scatter the flowers. Do not put it in the bin.
The flowers
PlumeriaFragrant tropical tree with waxy, five-petaled flowers in many colours
DendrobiumA vast genus of orchids found from the Himalayas to Australia and the PacificAlso part of it, and being written: Agave amica, Cordyline fruticosa.
Sources and further reading
Original text by the Phool desk, written with AI assistance. Customs vary from place to place. If we have something wrong, tell us.
Photo credits on this page
The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.
- Plumeria: Renesis, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Crown flower: Aris riyanto, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
- Arabian jasmine: Taken by Fanghong, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Dendrobium: Geoff Derrin, CC BY-SA 4.0, source